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DCs working with immigrants at the U.S./Mexican border, McAllen, TX

Drawing by a child from El Salvador (courtesy of Sister Mary Ellen Lacy)

Drawing by a child from El Salvador (courtesy of Sister Mary Ellen Lacy)

by Sister Mary Ellen Lacy, D.C.

(Sisters Sherry Barrett, Mary Ellen Lacy and Janina Zilvinskis arrived in Texas in mid-July to begin their service with mothers and young children arriving from Mexico and Central America by the busloads in McAllen, Texas. Sister Mary Ellen wrote the story below and sent us the drawing at the top of this post, done by one of the children she worked with. Special thanks to Sr. Mary Ellen for granting permission to share them on our blog)

I am assisting with cases of young women who have applied for U Visas or asylum. A U Visa provides relief from deportation for victims of crimes who can and are willing to assist in the prosecution of the criminal. My clients could apply because they were victims of crime, mostly severe abuse, physical and/or sexual. The oldest was 16 when she came to ProBar for help. Horribly true, a couple of these babies got pregnant as a result of the assault. I am grateful that they have representation.

Not all kids get a lawyer – only about half. A new study released Tuesday showed that 50% of those with lawyers have a relief and get to stay. However of those who self represent – about 10% get to stay. It is not unsurprising that a child cannot plead her case adequately in the complex world of Immigration Law. It is absurd to think they might do so. Ironically, the government always has a lawyer.

My coworkers, lawyers, paralegals and clerical assistants, are young, dedicated and loving. Everyone is a passionate advocate for the young ones we serve. They work long hours, bear many hardships but do not tire of being kind. Their genuine decency and goodness is a bright light in America amidst the darkness of fear and prejudice that gets all the publicity.

I attended a “Know your rights” class with 8 kids, aged 6 to 10, 6 girls and 2 boys. All but one child was slight. Many had healing/scabbing bug bites on their arms but they were all clean and well dressed. Clearly there had been a donation of polo shirts, windbreakers, jeans and shoes that light up. They live in local houses of compassionate foster folks and come to the “foster house” for school and play. We visit them at the foster house. All were adorably obedient and loudly responded in unison to the teacher’s questions. It reminded me of my old Catholic School days.

We asked them to draw about what we discussed so they will recall what we teach. We also have them draw their families and how they got to America. My little 7 year old friend from Honduras who had initially scooted to the back and refused to sit near anyone, had quickly moved her chair to sit facing me. She was quite playful. I told her that I did not pass the Rio to get to USA. Still, she insisted I draw the passing of the Rio Bravo too. She drew a flower and a tree in the middle of her river and insisted I do the same. She was not only hopeful for her, but for me, too.

When we asked her how she came to be in the USA, she said she came by boat. She said that she had been on a train that had derailed before she was moved to the boat. She was 7 years old and said she knew no one on the boat or the train that had derailed. I imagined how frightened she must have been. I considered that the privileged will never know this kind of courage because, unless forced to, no one would willingly face this kind of terror. But let’s face it, they do it because the reality of staying home presents an even greater terror: certain death. She is from Honduras where crime against women is violent, escalating and rarely prosecuted.

We had heard rumors of a train derailing in Mexico at the shelter but it never made the news here in USA. She was the first victim we had met. Later a coworker had a case of a mom with 3 kids. She had two young ones at home with her. However she could not pass the Social service visit/evaluation to get her teenager home until she had another bed. We looked for a second hand bed this afternoon. She is so impoverished that she could afford a bed and that impoverishment would deny her the presence of her child. Then all of a sudden, it became that final beautiful scene in It’s a Wonderful Life. I called all over telling people this woman was in need. Ultimately, many folks tapped into their own gratitude and offered to pay for one. Now, we will just allow her to pick her own bed out and pay for it. It is like that around here. You just ask people for something that may help these women and kids and they generously respond. The protesters and adults who would stop a busload of children we see on the news do not dim the light of Christ that is beaming so bright in Harlingen, Brownsville and McAllen. When we treat each other as human beings with inherent dignity, it really is a wonderful life.

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Sister Formation Movement and Marillac College, St. Louis

Marillac College students in class, 1960. Some twenty-five communities sent Sisters to Marillac and all took classes together (used with permission of Daughters of Charity Provincial Archives)

Marillac College students in class, 1960. Some twenty-five communities sent Sisters to Marillac and all took classes together (used with permission of Daughters of Charity Provincial Archives)

Forty years ago, Marillac College in St. Louis closed its doors and graduated its last class of Sister students. Marillac, begun in the late 1950s and located on the grounds of the provincial house of the former St. Louis Province, was unique in that it was a Sister Formation College. It combined a liberal arts education with the spiritual formation of young Sisters. A 1963 article in The SIGN Magazine described Marillac as:

“a nun’s place, a shining, modern $5.5 million place on a 180-acre estate where college life is lived to its fullest in a nun’s habit. In this sense Marillac is a college like any other, but it is also unique because of its position at the forefront of the Sister Formation Movement, which aims at improved training of nuns. Ultimately, some 170,000 U.S. nuns are involved in the consequences of the movement, as well as six million students in Catholic elementary and high schools who come under the influence of nuns in the classroom.

Marillac, aware of the stake and its role, prizes its sudden success as a new college whose first degrees were awarded only four years ago. Yet, it already has achieved accreditation with highest commendation from the North Central Association of Secondary Schools and Colleges, the same prestige accreditation accorded undergraduate studies at Chicago or Saint Louis Universities. Moreover, the Sacred Congregation for Religious in Rome has singled out the college for special praise.

Both accolades stem from Marillac’s pursuit of excellence under the aegis of the Sister Formation Movement, which came to the fore in the past ten years in response to directives from Pope Pius XII stressing the best possible training tailored for religious. Many orders established special college programs for their members, but the Daughters of Charity of St. Louis Province went a few giant steps further. They not only built Marillac for their own members but opened its classroom doors – free of charge – to religious communities throughout the country. Besides the 25 orders represented in the student body of 350, a cross-section of 15 different orders have members on the faculty.

… For Daughters of Charity, who comprise about two-thirds of the student body, Marillac provides a five-year program, with the novitiate year coming between freshman and sophomore years in the college. Students from other orders normally enter in sophomore year and live off campus in their own juniorates under the direction of a mistress. This enables the young nuns to maintain the distinctive spirit of their orders. Moreover, Marillac turns the nuns over to the rules of their respective orders every day between noon and three o’clock, producing a kaleidoscopic round of religious life, manifested in twenty-five different ways.”

After the College closed, the College grounds and buildings were sold to the University of Missouri-St. Louis. They are now used primarily for studies in the health sciences.

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Daughters of Charity Bid Farewell to Brooklyn, Buffalo

In recent days, the Daughters of Charity have ended their missions in Brooklyn and in Buffalo. The stories below are taken from the Province of St. Louise website and from FAMVIN.

Brooklyn farewell

Father Emmet Nolan, C.M., blesses some of the Daughters of Charity who have served at St. John the Baptist parish in Bedford-Stuyvesant (courtesy Daughters of Charity Province of St. Louise, St. Louis, MO)

Brooklyn
News release, Daughters of Charity Province of St. Louise, June 4, 2014

The Daughters of Charity have been a staple in Brooklyn for over 40 years, but a call to serve elsewhere has them packing their bags to leave.

The traces of the Daughters’ work will still be present, as they’ve left an indelible mark on the borough of Kings, especially the Bedford-Stuyvesant community. Though they’ll be leaving Kings County, they will remain in the diocese in several locations in Queens: their residence and a nursing home in Bayside; Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament Church, Bayside; and St. John’s University, Jamaica.

“The Daughters of Charity as a community are called to be mobile and available to go where the needs are,” said Sister Mary Beth Kubera, D.C., provincial councillor on the provincial leadership team for the Province of St. Louise, which stretches from Texas to the East Coast, including the location in Brooklyn.

“That’s been the case since the Daughters of Charity were founded in 1633, and we would like to continue to have our Sisters be mobile and available to go where they are needed and where they’re sent. We believe we are still sent to be missionaries wherever God wants us.”

Brooklyn Beginnings
Known as the Sisters of Charity of St. Joseph’s, the Daughters of Charity first arrived in Brooklyn in 1831 from Emmitsburg, Md., with the main purpose of teaching children at St. James Asylum and Free School.

Other ministries included serving at Cathedral Free School, St. Mary’s Institute, the Roman Catholic Orphan Asylum Society, St. Paul’s Asylum, St. Paul’s Industrial School, St. Philomena’s Academy and St. Joseph’s Asylum.

After establishing a strong presence, the Daughters left Brooklyn, but in 1971, they were called to return to Bedford-Stuyvesant, one of the poorest areas of the borough at that time. Five members of the Community–Sisters Beatrice Peck, D.C.; Mary Bernadette Szymczak, D.C.; Mary Josephine Hill, D.C.; Mary White, D.C.; and Mary Rose McGready, D.C.–were stationed at St. John the Baptist parish with the Vincentian priests who had served there for over 100 years.

At the parish, the Daughters served as catechists, ran the faith formation program, coordinated summer camps and donated whatever funds they had to the parish and parishioners.

In addition to these roles, they were active in Catholic Charities of Brooklyn; St. Anthony-St. Alphonsus parish, Greenpoint; the New Horizons adult education program; Holy Rosary School, Bedford-Stuyvesant; and New Beginnings Charter School, Bedford-Stuyvesant.

The Daughters were also instrumental in starting the St. John’s Bread and Life food pantry in 1982 at the parish. Despite its humble beginnings, the pantry now serves over 2,000 people per day and grew so large it was forced to upgrade to a more adequate space, now on Lexington Avenue in Bedford-Stuyvesant.

Over the years, many Sisters have served at St. John’s Church, currently a combined parish with Our Lady of Good Counsel. The last five Sisters to have lived there–Mary Ellen Thomas, D.C.; Maria Capobianco, D.C.; Kathleen Cevette, D.C.; Rose Marie Rizzo, D.C.; and Mary Ellen Lacy, D.C.–will all begin new ministries elsewhere this summer.

With the help of the Daughters, the Bedford-Stuyvesant neighborhood has undergone drastic changes. In addition to the thriving food pantry, the area has seen the development of many outreach programs that have aided in improving the quality of life.

“That’s why we came,” said Sister Mary Ellen, local superior of the Province of St. Louise who lived and ministered at the parish for the past 14 years.

“We were commissioned to reach out to the poor, the sick and the abandoned. There’s still a need, but it’s being addressed by our parishioners.”

Farewell Mass
On March 15, the parish hosted a farewell Mass for the Daughters, where the priests and parishioners had the chance to properly thank the Sisters for their years of dedicated service.

Father Emmett Nolan, C.M., pastor, celebrated the liturgy and said it was very emotional, since the parish would be losing a presence to which it had grown accustomed for so many years. However, he said the Mass was a celebration to show the parish’s great love for the Daughters of Charity.

Sister Mary Ellen said the Mass also allowed the Daughters to show their gratitude to the people they served during their time in Brooklyn.

The parishioners prepared a video commemorating the service of the Daughters over the years. About 20 Daughters who had served at the parish returned for the Mass and received a special blessing from Father Nolan as they continued to live out the mission established by St. Vincent de Paul.

Brooklyn Legacy
Though the Sisters may no longer by physically present at the parish, the outreach work they began will continue under the direction of the parishioners, who were inspired by the Community’s work.

“The people said they were graced (by having the Daughters), but we were graced by the people,” said Sister Mary Ellen, who will soon move to St. Charles Lwanga Church in Downtown Detroit.

“It was a legacy of God’s presence, both in the parish and in the service that was part of the parish center for so many years.”

Sister Mary Beth said she hopes the Daughters always leave a legacy of love–no matter where they serve–in ministering with mercy and compassion.

“I hope we’ve left with them the idea, the value and the conviction that it’s really important to reach out to those who are on the margins of society, the most poor and vulnerable in our society,” she said.

“I think that’s what we leave behind. I’m very confident the people we have touched understand that, and hopefully they will pass it on.”

As for Father Nolan, he said he will miss the Sisters, whom he called the parish’s “Mothers,” but he’s eternally grateful for the impact they’ve had on the parish community.

“Simple, humble charity. That’s what it is,” he said. “They (Daughters) serve simply, humbly and they do unbelievable things. The Daughters are just the best.

“You almost never know they’re there, but they do incredible things and you hardly notice it because that is their charism. Simple, humble service.”

Buffalo Hospital of the Sisters of Charity

Buffalo Hospital of the Sisters of Charity, 1870 (used with permission of the Daughters of Charity Provincial Archives)

Buffalo’s tribute to Daughters of Charity
Vincentian Family News, June 8, 2014

Sister Mary Grace Higgins needed the cuddle this time around more than the newborn did.

After a few squirms, little Jackson Price – just 5 days old and a tad over 5 pounds – settled into Higgins’ arms and began to nod off.

A “cuddler” in the neonatal intensive care unit of Sisters of Charity Hospital on Main Street, the 86-year-old Higgins has comforted hundreds of newborns in need of a gentle hug when their mothers can’t be around.

But as Higgins and the hospital’s last few nuns on staff prepared for an emotional departure from the hospital, it seemed to be Jackson providing much of the comfort.

After 166 years, the sisters who started Sisters are walking away.

So begins a front page tribute in Buffalo’s premier newspaper The Buffalo News. The story continues…

Higgins is part of an order of Catholic nuns called the Daughters of Charity, which founded Buffalo’s oldest hospital in 1848 and provided health care to tens of thousands of area residents over the years.

Later this week, the Daughters of Charity, based in St. Louis, will begin sending Higgins and four other women religious who live and work at Sisters on to other ministries elsewhere. Bishop Richard Malone will celebrate a Mass this morning in St. Louis Catholic Church to commemorate the order’s lengthy tenure at Sisters Hospital.

Long after many orders of women religious removed themselves almost entirely from hospital work, the Daughters of Charity continued to provide at least a handful of sisters for its namesake hospital. (The Daughters of Charity were known previously as the Sisters of Charity.)

The upcoming departure is mostly symbolic at this point. Nuns haven’t worked in significant numbers in area Catholic hospitals for decades, and even the five women at Sisters, due to their age, served in recent years mostly in a part-time capacity. A sister hasn’t been president of Sisters since 1992.

Nonetheless, the withdrawal again highlights how rare nuns have become in a field where they once were omnipresent.

Just a smattering of women religious from various congregations will now be left doing local hospital work, as chaplains, nurses or volunteers.

It’s a far cry from when dozens of sisters roamed the corridors of Sisters, Mercy Hospital and other Catholic facilities as nurses, supervisors, pharmacists and in other roles.

“There was a time when every floor of the hospital had a sister as a charge nurse, for all three shifts,” said Sister Mary Anne Brawley, who after spending two years at Sisters will move to a hospital in Binghamton in July.

At the request of Bishop John Timon (a Vincentian), Buffalo’s first prelate, eight Sisters of Charity established Sisters of Charity Hospital on Pearl Place. They admitted their first patients, a group of six sailors, on Oct. 1, 1848.

More than 850 Daughters of Charity have served in Buffalo since then.

The lengthy tradition of service at Sisters made the decision to retreat difficult. But, as with most orders of women religious, the Daughters of Charity has seen a precipitous decline in numbers.

Nationwide, the number of Catholic nuns has fallen from 179,954 in 1965 to 51,247 last year, according to statistics from the CARA Research Center at Georgetown University. In the Buffalo Diocese, the number of sisters dropped from 3,520 in 1965 to 819 last year.

Stunning news
The Daughters of Charity, which founded or sponsored about 200 hospitals across the country over the past 191 years, determined last fall that it needed to pull out of several hospitals, including Sisters. Hospitals in Birmingham, Ala., Bridgeport, Conn., Nashville, Tenn., and Indianapolis also will be affected.

“It was stunning news,” admitted Peter U. Bergmann, president and chief executive officer of Sisters.

The Rev. Richard E. Zajac, longtime chaplain at Sisters, was equally astonished.

“They’ve been almost like family to me,” said Zajac, who was frequently invited to holiday dinners with the sisters in their residence on the fifth floor of the hospital. “It’s going to be tough to say goodbye.”

Bergmann said he doesn’t think the departure of the sisters will alter how the hospital provides care or treats patients.

The Daughters of Charity also will continue to be a sponsor of the hospital and have a presence on the Catholic Health system board of directors.

“We will still be led as a Catholic institution, as a Daughter of Charity hospital,” Bergmann said.

The Daughters created a wonderful legacy at Sisters Hospital that will be in good hands with lay people, said Sister Janet Keim, provincial councilor for the Daughters of Charity Province of St. Louise.

“It is a legacy that I think will continue and I think our spirit will be there,” she said.

The Daughters, she added, needed to bolster some other ministries. They also want to establish new ministries in places with “more materially poor people and where needs aren’t being met,” she said.

The Daughters of Charity will continue to maintain a presence in the Diocese of Buffalo, with five sisters living in Niagara Falls and serving in ministries there.

“Buffalo has a lot of women religious, and that figured in the mix,” Brawley said. “We’re supposed to go those most in need.”

Difficult to leave
Of course, the ideals of St. Louise de Marillac and St. Vincent de Paul, the two founders of the order, haven’t made the transition at Sisters any easier for the women who are leaving.

During her visit to the neonatal intensive care unit, Higgins took the opportunity to cuddle one more baby, even though Jackson wasn’t fussing and his mom, Cara George, of Strykersville, was in the room with him.

“I was on call. When they need you, they need you,” Higgins said about her work as a cuddler. “It’s very satisfying. They get to know my voice.”

Higgins will move to Albany later this week with Sister Ann Paul Chenard. Joining them will be Sister Sue O’Neill, who set up the hospital’s innovative massage therapy program about 12 years ago.

“When I started, it was just myself, and it was with a lot of resistance,” said O’Neill, 67, who will start a massage therapy program in Albany. “Now, it’s huge. It’s a whole wing of the hospital.”

Even at age 86, Higgins clearly knows how to handle babies. Jackson slept soundly for nearly 30 minutes in her arms, prompting George to joke: “Can I take you home with me?”

None of it was a surprise to Maria Koniarczyk, charge nurse in the neonatal intensive care unit, who said the babies benefit from as much cuddling as they can get. A nun from another order, the Franciscan sisters, also shows up regularly to cuddle infants.

“I have to tell you, the babies love their sisters,” Koniarczyk said.

Offering comfort
Chenard worked the other end of the life spectrum at Sisters, but like Higgins, she responded at just about any hour to the needs of staff and patients in the hospital’s long-term care facility.

While Higgins cuddled Jackson, Chenard, 85, was on a separate floor of the hospital, sharing memories and saying her goodbyes. Chenard provided spiritual care for 14 years in the nursing home, often sitting with dying patients as they took their last breaths.

“I don’t think anyone should die alone,” said Chenard, who plans to do similar ministry among aging sisters in the Daughters of Charity residence in Albany.

“She’s been our rock; she’s been our comfort,” said Debra Berdych, a licensed practical nurse.

Carolyn Adams, unit secretary, remembered Chenard’s caring concern for her mother, Martha Parker, who died seven years ago.

“You sat with my mother,” said Adams. “I’ll never forget it.”

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